Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Living in France : Talking with your hands

GESTURES
It is a well-known fact that the French, like the Italians and Spanish, speak with their hands! Sometimes, it looks strange for those coming from an Anglo Saxon culture.

But, in France, shaking somebody’s hand when meeting is very polite. This will often happen between men especially in companies. Of course, you will not shake the hand of a young child. You will kiss him.

EXPRESSIVENESS
Do observe the face and expressions of the French when talking and you might already have the reply to your question!! In everyday life, the French are very expressive and you can read their emotions on their face very easily. However, in an official meeting, one has to control oneself!

You will also notice (if you haven’t already done so!) that when there is a language problem the French will often be very patient to help you out and understand you.
If you make a mistake in a conversation, they will often look at you, smile and give you the right reply: not because they want to “correct” you but because they want to help you.

EXPRESSIONS
Wherever you go, do not forget to say “Bonjour”. As simple as it may sound, it is the simplest way for the French to greet you. The fact of not doing so could be interpreted as a lack of respect. Do remember to put “S’il vous plait” at the end of your sentences as it makes the tone of your sentences “milder”.
- “Je voudrais un café, s’il vous plait.”

From Isabelle : Intransit's French Language Tutor
http://www.in-company-french.com/
06 65 24 64 74

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Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Living in France : Communicating with the French

So you haven’t quite mastered the French language yet? Don’t be afraid to take the plunge and join in the verbal jousting. Despite what one reads in many books, it simply isn’t true that the French will frown if you “massacre” their language.

On the contrary, they will greatly appreciate your efforts to communicate in their mother tongue and you’ll quickly find that using the little French you have will go a long way to building rapport.

Some insights into the French communication style:

(1) The French are verbally expressive. They relish debate and often engage in lively—even heated—discussions over dinner or in business meetings. People from less confrontational cultures should not mistake this love of debate for hostility.

(2) French people don’t spell things out. Instead, they expect the listener to fill in the gaps drawing on shared contextual information. Messages are often implicit rather than explicit.

(3) Simultaneous communication is favoured in France; most of the time it is “okay” to interrupt someone who is speaking to you.

(4) Good verbal skills are prized by the French who will strive to present their point of view with icy Cartesian logic, elegant phrasing and verbal flourishes. This is one reason Gallic business people prefer to negotiate in their native tongue: their verbal pyrotechnics are lost when expressed in another language.

(5) The French strive to be precise in their communications, constantly looking for “le mot juste” (the right word).

(6) Both verbal and written communications are peppered with polite turns of phrases and are fairly formal, except between family and friends.

(7) As a rule, French people are not afraid to criticize a point of view or to say ‘no’. In the workplace, however, especially in larger companies and organizations, employees will be hesitant to confront their boss if they think he or she is in the wrong.

(8) France is what is known as a high-context culture (I’ll post more on this later). Put simply, this means that building long-term relationships is important. Face-to-face meetings are therefore preferred to telephone conversations or written exchanges.

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Monday, May 07, 2007

Living in France : The Sarkozy effect


At 8pm local time Nicolas Sarkozy was elected the new president of the fifth republic of France after a highly charged campaign from both candidates. While the two candidates offered very different ideas on the future of the country, many of the French hesitated on their choice right up to the last minute. Perhaps the most important result was the enormous turn out for the vote.

The French are definitely ready for a change and with less than 15% abstentions they have made it known. Nicolas Sarkozy gained a comfortable lead from the French electorate, one that expresses a national desire to inject some dynamism into a traditionally institutionalised country.

While Madame Royale promised a review of the welfare state without loosing the social protection that so many French rely on, Mr Sarkozy presents a more radical view of France’s future. One driven by the unchaining of the economy from the traditional institutions that Ségolène Royale wishes to maintain, with a manifesto which he believes will promote a new pride in the national identity and strong economic growth.

The number of young voters was unprecedented in this election. With France’s recent history of riots and demonstrations among this demographic, often fueled by right wing policies, this marks quite a turn around in attitude.

It is maybe the charisma of Mr Sarkozy that has swung the voters to his camp. It is true that his public addresses over the campaign have been, on the face of it, heartfelt and inspiring. He has taken many risks and has stood firm, which while building his credibility, has helped fire up the French in both camps.

Madame Royale offered a new break from the right with no compromise on the traditional values of the French, but her program for change, it seems, wasn’t enough.

So what does this mean for the future of France?

On the national level there is great deal of uncertainty about how far Mr Sarkozy is going to go to revamp France. Many French are concerned about the impact of the new president on their civil liberties and more generally the French still hold their traditions and institutions close to their hearts.

It cannot be denied that such traditions have maintained a sense of national pride and provided a unique culture that is recognised and celebrated by nations across the world (France still remains the most visited country with around 75 million visitors a year).

France, economically speaking though, is slowly chocking on these protectionist institutions and is loosing its image as a great nation. Its voice in the global arena is in danger of becoming weak.

Instead of snubbing global policies it must strive to embrace and influence them. France has consistently offered a strong check and balance on various global issues and has historicly good relations with many emerging economies and world cultures that many of its western friends envy.

Certainly, with Mr Sarkozy at the helm, new interest in France will be generated among the western world. However, while foreign investment is likely to be forthcoming, many European member states, who saw the French economy as a flagstone of Europe, may be hedging their bets on Mr Sarkozy due to his commitment to a new Franco-American alliance.

The French legislative elections later this year will heavily influence Mr Sarkozy’s game plan. A swing to the left will certainly balance his ambitions; another step to the right may provide him with a ‘carte blanche’.

Only time will tell but France is now standing up and is being counted.

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Thursday, May 03, 2007

Living in Paris : Gay Paris!


Gay Paris !

Parisians are highly open to alternative lifestyles and the homosexual community is very much part of the every-day-life here, it is part of the ‘Richesse de Paris’.

There are many famous clubs like the “Queen”, the “Scorp”, and a lot of bars, mostly located in the 4th arrondissement, the Marais, where you can also find the only gay hotel in Paris, the Hôtel Central Marais.
hotelcentralmarais.monsite.wanadoo.fr

There are also several sports clubs like the first gay football club of Paris, the FC Paris Arc En Ciel www.fcparis-arcenciel.com, the Paris Foot Gay parisfootgay.free.fr, or the only gay rugby club in Paris, Les Gaillards http://www.lesgaillards.org/ all these clubs do of course also welcome heterosexuals who would like to share their passion for these sports.

There is even a real estate agency that specialises in short-term rentals for gay couples and singles and actually hands out the “Gay Guide” that helps non-Parisians find their feet in this scene. http://www.gayhouseparis.com/indexeng.html

Plenty of information on places and events can be found on the following web sites:
http://www.parisgaivillage.com/gb/index.html
http://www.paris-gay.com/indexgb.php
http://www.gaypride.fr/

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Cannes Film Festival, Join the Party !


There are a few things that one would never ever forget. Things that forge one's personality as part of a bigger picture. For instance, Frenchmen are very attached to the Revolution and to the ideals that spread from it, just as Americans would be to the War for Independence, etc...
But hopefully, a nation's pride doesn't only rely on bloodshed ! And the Cannes Film Festival (May 16th - May 27th) is a magnificent and peaceful alternative indeed !

Since its first happening in 1946, the Cannes Film Festival has established itself among the most popular and esteemed cultural manifestations both in France and on the international scale.
Over the years, festivals of that kind have gained an even stronger appeal. And it's a common dream to be in the middle of it, part of the living whirlwind, of the excitement of being were everyone wants to be. What better occasion than the Cannes Film Festival to reach the unreachable...

Dreamers, wake up. Because reality really isn't that bad : the dream is close at hand.
Horn's Club has secured places for the 8th happening of the Bal de le Riviera on May 19th, a prestigious party on the Croisette. Take a chance to live an unique experience partying with celebrities and jet set members. Perfect blend of elegance and refinement, the Bal de le Riviera will have the pleasure to host among others, Jean-Pierre Rive, the famous sculptor who will display his works the time of the party.
Let the champagne flow, such occasions suffer no excuses, excesses will be the rule on May 19th.
A once-in-a-life experience reachable to Horn's Club members only !
Visit Horn's Club website for more info.

Related link : www.festival-cannes.fr

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Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Living in Paris : MESSAGE Mothers Bring and Buy sale


Bargains Galore at MESSAGE's Spring Bring & Buy Sale

Find new and gently-used baby and children's clothes, toys, books, games, equipment, maternity wear and more -- at bargain prices. Many items were purchased abroad (e.g., UK and US) and may be difficult to find in France.

Saturday, May 12, 2007
10 AM - 2 PM


Courtyard Marriott Hotel,
58, Blvd. Victor Hugo
Neuilly-sur-Seine

Metro: Les Sablons/Anatole France

Entrance fee: 2 Euros per family for members;
4 Euros per family for non-members
First 3 hours of hotel parking are free!

Organized by MESSAGE Mother Support Group
www.messageparis.org

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Living in France : 'On' or 'nous'

On va au cinéma ?In spoken French, we often use “On” instead of “Nous”. For instance, we are going to say “On va au cinéma” instead of “Nous allons au cinéma”. It makes things more colloquial.

The young will mainly use “On” when the older generation will use “Vous”. In a professional context, you can use either “Nous” or “On” depending on whom you are talking to: “On” with your colleagues, if you wish to show closeness and “Nous” if you wish to sound more formal and polite.

From Isabelle : Intransit's French Language Tutor
www.french-in-paris.com
06 65 24 64 74

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